Julie McNulty - Peace and Serenity

My new definition of a light worker is, “Someone who does more than is required.”  I always see light workers going the extra mile to be sure the help they are providing is of “high quality”.  Good job light workers!  Just be sure to give some back to yourselves so you can of service but not a “servant”.  Servants act as doormats to others and feel drained because they are unbalanced due to lack of self care.  It is more than okay to fill yourself up so when you do help others you are at your best!

In writing today I had a sense that I needed to share what I have experienced in the past three years. I feel some of you may be going through this and I hope these words encourage you to keep going.

In running my own company I feel I have been extremely blessed.  Some of you who know my assistant America.  She and I always say, “We have the best clients in the world!” Because we do and it is because of them we have grown since 2002 on just word of mouth alone.  That is an amazing task in itself.

Yet as businesses do, we have had our share of growing pains and we have learned an excellent word to help us deal with the changes, “Laughter.”   I highly recommend it to anyone going through an “uneasy” time in their life.  These growing pains, once we have let go of our control of them, were merely changes that landed us where it was we needed to be.

As I wrote this month reflecting on what has made us so successful I heard “Right Dream, Right Team.” 

Some times we have a dream that we want to make happen because our family wanted it for us or because we thought it was the “right” direction to go.  When it didn’t fulfill us or take off like we had planned we may have wondered why.  If you are anything like me you might have even blamed yourself.  “What’s wrong with me that I can’t manifest this?” This is what I used to ask myself.  Let’s agree to step away from blame, it really serves no purpose.  Let us instead ask ourselves, “Is this the right Dream? Is this the dream that is in my heart?  Is this what I have dreamt of doing since I was little but I keep talking myself out of it only to work on something else that is not fulfilling me?  Better yet, on your highest energy of the day take a pen and paper and write down this question. “What do I want?” “What is my passion of passions?”  You will have the answer.  It will be a better answer than any psychic will ever be able to offer you.  Why?  Because deep inside all of us, our spirit always has the answer.

Next, ask yourself, “Do I have the right team?”  Are you allowing others to help you? Are you gathering people that will support your dream? If not, describe the kind of team you need.  What attributes will they need to posses in order to allow this dream to take flight?

While your idea is taking off use this as a touch stone.  “Right Dream?  Right Team?”  Use it as your spiritual GPS system to guide you in the right direction.

I promise that you will be more fulfilled when you are moving in the direction of what it you are dreaming of.  Be patient with yourself along the way and remember to laugh like America and I do. Let go of control and trust.  You will land exactly where it is you need to be.

Blessings,

Julie McNultywww.peaceandserenity.com

While going through a huge challenge, a good friend told me to love myself more.  She added, “No matter what you are going through, loving yourself more will help your situation get better.  This is true for any problem.” She was so right.  The situation I was in looked really hopeless and I was in too much pain to move forward.  But I took her advice and started to find new ways to love myself.  Weather it was treating myself to a foot rub or taking a bath with candles, I went the extra mile to treat myself better than I had in the past and much to my surprise, three months latter the problem resolved all by itself.  I didn’t have to lift a finger to “make things happen.”  The problem literally dissipated. 

I wanted to say thank you to Alyssa.  You were right, loving yourself can’t hurt the situation, in can only make it better.

Blessings,

Julie

Sometimes we just need someone to you say, “I believe in you! You can do it!” From me to you! “I believe in you! You can do it! You really can!”

Blessings,

Julie

Q; When will my finances get better?

Guadalupe

Dear Guadalupe,

A:

I feel February is a good month for you.  I feel in the past your energy has been very high when you are first placed in a position and then it goes down for some reason and I feel it’s because you need to be in a position that changes all the time.  Something that is not routine for you is better for your personality.  A variety if better for you because you feel very creative.  Having a position in marketing or a position where you have to think on your feet would be very good for you.  Like most of us I don’t think you need your Angels to tell you which way to go.  I feel you just need to ask them for the courage to follow the direction that you are hearing in your heart.  It may seem impossible when you think about it but all ideas seem impossible at the very beginning.  Give yourself the permission to just try this new direction and see where it takes you.  Know that you will make mistakes as it is new and we all make mistakes along the way.  I can see the outcome of your labor and it will vastly make up for any mistakes you make along the way.  It will be well worth it!

*Just a word of caution: I would advise you not to give so much of yourself away to others. It is admirable to give to others but not to the extent where it is affecting your own happiness.  You are beautiful the way you are and people need just to be around you to know how loving you truly are.

Good luck to you and keep believing in yourself for there is nothing that you can not accomplish with the help of your angels!

Blessings,

Julie McNulty

www.peaceandserenity.com

Two of my biggest lessons I learned last year where; 1) Being of service is not the same as being a “servant” and 2) Doing things for other people is admirable but not at the expense of ones own happiness. Healthy boundaries make a healthy self! Namaste!  Julie

 I just read an article where more kids are being diagnosed with ADD in schools. Just curious if they have looked at the correlation with the removal of the extra activities like music and art and wood shop that made school bearable for those “creative” children. So they remove the art programs and now those kids are bored and appear to have ADD. It’s something they should look at before labeling these kids.

Blessings,

Julie

The Universe is speaking to you today reminding you what you knew as a child; that you are a miracle. You are special and amazing in every way.  There is nobody like you on this entire planet. Can you believe it?  Out of all the 6,809,116,936 people that are here you are the only you!  Isn’t that amazing?!  You have the ability to love and forgive. You have the ability to heal your body.  You have the ability to change the direction your life is going. There is only one force out there and it is on your side always and never against you.  You will find all this to be true the more you connect with your spirit.  Your spirit is resilient, loving, and eternal and never tires. 

My prayer for you today is that you realize all of this to be true and that you embrace it.  You are an amazing person and the world is a better place because you are in it!

Have a blessed day!

Julie

It doesn’t matter what others think of you if you are fulfilling your life’s purpose. If you worry about what other people say, you give away your power. Be original! by James Van Praagh and I love it! Thanks James!